Abuse is not just a personal issue—it’s a public health crisis.
Abuse has reached epidemic levels, affecting individuals, families, and entire communities. Its consequences extend far beyond the immediate victim, creating ripple effects that impact every layer of society. Abuse contributes to poor mental and physical health outcomes, undermines economic stability, strains social systems, and perpetuates intergenerational cycles of trauma. Recognizing abuse as a significant public issue is essential for mobilizing resources, increasing awareness, and developing effective systems of prevention, intervention, and support. By addressing abuse as a societal concern rather than a private matter, communities can foster healing, strengthen resilience, and work toward lasting change.
Welcome to After the Fire Nineteen 12
A faith-based resource for healing from domestic violence and coercive control.
Healing is possible. Hope is real. And you do not have to walk this journey alone.
My name is Rae Young, and I am dedicated to helping survivors of trauma and abuse move from surviving to thriving. Through a unique blend of trauma-informed care, public health education, evidence-based practices, and Christian faith, I provide guidance that supports healing of the mind, body, and spirit.
My passion is rooted in both professional training and personal experience, allowing me to connect with survivors with authenticity, compassion, and understanding. As a graduate student in Public Health, I am committed to educating individuals and communities about the impact of trauma while equipping them with practical tools for healing, resilience, and growth.
Whether you are seeking support for your own journey, resources to better understand trauma, or education to help others, this space was created for you. Here, you will find encouragement, knowledge, and hope in a safe and supportive environment.
Together, we can embrace healing, restore purpose, and move forward with courage and faith.
Welcome—you belong here.
WELCOME!
In the grand adventure of life, I believe those who face their deepest challenges with courage become radiant beacons of hope for others.
I invite you to find inspiration in my personal journey and in the wisdom God has graciously poured into my life, wisdom that has nurtured my mind, strengthened my body, and renewed my spirit. It is my heartfelt prayer that this blog will be a source of encouragement, hope, and truth, igniting a passion within you to draw closer to Jesus and experience the fullness of His love.
Every step you take toward healing and embracing biblical truth can transform your life and influence those around you. As we grow in faith, hope, and resilience, we become beacons of light for others seeking healing and restoration. I invite you to join me on this remarkable journey—one marked by grace, purpose, and the unwavering confidence that through our Lord and Savior, we can overcome every challenge and walk boldly into the life God has prepared for us.
God says in Joshua 1:9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous, do not be afraid, do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.
Paul confirms in 2 Timothy 1:7 For God has not given us a Spirit of fear, but of power and love and a sound mind.
Ephesians 6:12
For our struggle is not against flesh and blood but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of the dark world, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.
The enemy thrives on our complacency and uses fear to silence us.
That fear can make us feel like we’re walking on eggshells, unsure of our voice and our worth. Through deceit and manipulation, the enemy seeks to dominate our thoughts—fostering confusion and planting seeds of self-doubt. Sometimes, this shows up as harsh inner criticism, convincing us that we don’t deserve a life filled with peace, purpose, or joy.
What’s even more painful is that the enemy often works through those closest to us, making his tactics feel deeply personal. But recognizing these strategies is the first step toward reclaiming our God-given worth and authority.
You are not powerless. You are not alone. And you are absolutely worthy of a life rooted in truth, healing, and hope.